Sad feeling....

Why problem... always come not in a single way..... not just one time..it come not just one problem... it like a storm... come with many problem together.. one by one.. deeper and deeper...

Life is what??? sometime. ... I really do not understand... what is the meaning of life?
It should be happy happy... go lucky? don't see the problem... then will not be a problem? or kept it under the carpet....  or bring it up and face it... will it help the situation ? or make the case more worse...

I really don't know what to do.. how to face it... Can i pretend there is no problem? Can u easy to change people perception on you? When u did good thing.. change to good behavior.. but in their mind... already set that u are a loser. ... whatever u did... all will go down to the drain... perhaps... just God knows what are u trying to do...but who will believe it? Even someone... who know u so well...more than decade.... also got such perception on u.... like never change...how to overcome it?

Like people saying... there is no negative. If there is anger, there is pain. If there is pain there is the dark side.
and you dont want to end up in the dark side...no life... no meaning...
perhaps need to learn from the mons... forget and forgive... do good thing...  everyday praying... reduce your karma... and bring up your soul... to have a better life in your next life...
So, do you care your next life... even your current life also not solve the problem....sad ending...

Die... or death ... will solve the problem? or it just carry the problem to the next life?
 no one know what will happened on the next life...

Human relationship is very complicated... as all from different culture.. different family background... different experience... a lot of difference ... so be together.. is a fate... so.. all must give and take....
if do wrong thing... will need to forgive and forget? then the relationship will be smooth on... and on...
if not... there is no more meaning to be together... right? moreover... the trust must be there...
if no trust... also no more meaning to be together also ... right?
why still keeping those old issue... old problem... old incident... deep inside the heart??? why???
really do not understand...

當你扛不住的時候就讀一遍......

第一句 “人都是逼出來的”。每個人都是有潛能的，生於安樂，死於憂患，所以，當面對壓力的時候，不要焦燥，也許這只是生活對你的一點小考驗，相信自己，一切都能處理好，逼急了好漢可以上梁山，時世造英雄，窮者思變，人只有壓力才會有動力




第二句：“如果你簡單，這個世界就對你簡單”。簡單生活才能幸福生活，人要自足常樂，寬容大度，什麼事情都不能想繁雜，心靈的負荷重了，就會怨天憂人。要定期的對記憶進行一次刪除，把不愉快的人和事從記憶中擯棄.



第三句：“人生沒有彩排，每一天都是現場直播”。偶爾會想，如果人生真如一場電子遊戲，玩壞了可以選擇重來，生活會變成什麼樣子？正因為時光流逝一去不復返，每一天都不可追回，所以更要珍惜每一寸光陰，孝敬父母、疼愛孩子、體貼愛人、善待朋友。


第四句：“懷才就象懷孕，時間久了會讓人看出來”。人，切莫自以為是，地球離開 了誰都會轉，古往今來，恃才放肆的人都沒有好下場。所以，即便再能幹，也一定要保持謙虛謹慎，做好自己的事情，是金子總會發光。


第五句：“過去酒逢知已千杯少，現在酒逢千杯知已少”。不甚酒力，體會不了酒的美味，但卻能感受知已的妙處。沒有朋友的人生是孤獨的，不完整的，可是，因為生活的忙碌，漸漸少了聯絡，友誼就變的淡了，所以，抽點時間，聯絡朋友一起聊聊天，讓情誼在笑聲中升騰，當朋友遇到了難題的時候，一定要記得挺身而出，即便幫不了忙，安慰也是最大的支持。


第六句：“人生如果錯了方向，停止就是進步”。人，總是很難改正自己的缺點，人，也總是很難發現自己的錯誤，有時，明知錯了，卻欲罷不能，一錯再錯，把握正確的方向，堅守自己的原則，世界上的誘惑很多，天上永遠不會掉餡餅，不要因為貪圖一時的快樂而付出慘痛的代價，如果發現錯了，一定要止步。


第七句：“人生兩大悲劇：一是萬念俱灰，一是躊躇滿志”。現代的人好象特別脆弱，報紙上天天報導眾多名人得抑鬱症，這些人一定是從一個極端走向別一個極端。正因為 躊躇滿志，才堅信自已是完美的，是無所不能的，如果受到一點挫折，就會變得極度自卑，甚至失去繼續生活的勇氣。為自己找一個準確的定位，享受生活樂趣。


第八句：“人生和愛情一樣，錯過了愛情就錯過了人生”。愛情是什麼？讓人無所適從，讓人神魂顛倒，面對愛情的時候，勇敢一點，大膽說出自己的愛，有花堪摘直須摘，莫待無花空折枝。人，總會生老病死，怎麼過都是一生，錯過了愛情就錯過了生命的精彩。



第九句：“天下有錢人終成眷屬”。現代社會的人變得越來越勢利，愛情也越來越無足輕重，於是我不得不相信“天下有錢人終成眷屬”就對現代愛情的最確切的描述。


第十句：“要成功，需要朋友，要取得巨大的成功，需要敵人”。有競爭才有發展，因為有了敵人的存在，因為有了不服輸的決心，才會努力的做好自己的事，所以，有時候，敵人比朋友的力量更大，天下沒有永遠的敵人，卻有永遠的朋友，有些時候，敵人也可以變成朋友

New Year feeling

Time is clicking and clicking every min, every hour... going to reach year end .. 2010
2011 is coming... near the corner..
What is in my mind now? What is my planning for year 2011? Any goal ?
How about the pass ? Any achievement so far? need to think think think....
If something hard to think... then it proof that one thing.,.. that type of achievement is not that great..
What need to be done to improve further? Is that goal or target you set is too high, unrealistic ?

Well , why everytime almost near the year end... need to think those thing? Is it a good attitude to life?
Like people saying.. whatever has gone.. no point look back.. should look forward.. make it better...
but still got people saying... look back.. what went wrong... learn the mistake .. and move forward..
or get the inspiration you need from postive attitude and move forward..

So many motivation theory in the world... all are teaching us be more positive.. take the challenge..
take the risk..at the end... you will achieve your goal..Is that so simple?
sometime.. we need to face different challenge... which beyond our control .. like take it or leave it..

So, what is my resolution of year 2011? Find a better job? What happened to the current job?
What can be done to improve the situation? All need to think and think ... and must with some action..
then the situation can change..no point like "NATO" ...

What happened to me in the middle of the night.. still not sleeping... and typing all those feeling in the blog.,...
let who see? myself as a record.,. of miss feeling.. toward year 2011...

Hope like people say... not always is raining day.. it will be over soon... then there will be another good day tomorrow waiting for you to findout...

Below is some of nice and true philosphy of life ...

當你扛不住的時候就讀一遍......


1、靠山山會倒，靠人人會跑,只有自己最可靠。

2、沒有人陪你走一輩子，所以你要適應孤獨，沒有人會幫你一輩子，所以你要奮鬥一生。

3、與其用淚水悔恨今天，不如用汗水拼搏今天。

4、當眼淚流盡的時候，留下的應該是堅強。

5、人生就像一杯沒有加糖的咖啡，喝起來是苦澀的，回味起來卻有久久不會退去的餘香。

6、有一種緣，放手後成為風景，有一顆心，堅持中方現真誠。

7、選擇自己所愛的，愛自己所選擇的。

8、這一秒不放棄，下一秒就會有希望。

9、曾經擁有的不要忘記，難以得到的更要珍惜，屬於自己的不要放棄，不屬於自己的不要強求，已經失去的留作回憶。

10、喜歡就該珍惜，珍惜就別放棄。

11、人生就是一場旅行，不在乎目的地，在乎的應該是沿途的風景以及看風景的心情。

12、不求與人相比，但求超越自己，要哭就哭出激動的淚水，要笑就笑出成長的性格。

13、為你的難過而快樂的是敵人，為你的快樂而快樂的是朋友，為你的難過而難過的才是你的知己。

14、如果愛，請深愛；如不愛，請離開。

15、只要心中有希望存在，就有幸福存在。

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