Cherating Trip 2011

We have a wonderful time in Cherating ... and very relax... and enjoy the wind and beach....
Everyone is very happy and also enjoy the food over there too...
We are staying in Legend Resort...

Some thinking..

Well... time fly very fast... going to year end.... a couple days later will be new year...
sometime.. think over... why something bad thing will be happened that way? which not the way we want...
is it because the wrong move that we took? or due to beyond our control... which god fate...
well... i don't think so... anyone got an answer for it... perhaps both together mix it up... and the result as what we saw...

Base on my feeling...whatever happened... already happened... which cannot be control anymore...just can deduce the impact or resolve the bad issue from happened again....
from the bad thing... one thing that i can learn from it... whatever you think want to do.. want to say... just do it...
if not.. no one will know what are u thinking about it.. what u want to do? as never happened thing.. which people will not know what is going to happen ... and what will happen.... so.. be brave enough... just do it...
and will not regret later...

As sometime people say.... golden opportunity will not come easy and not always be there for you... and time did not wait for people... it will continue to move on ....so..take the action... if fail... at least you can tell yourself... you have try and fail... rather than.. you never try and never know...
as people always said... if you try... at least... you got 50% chance of success... if you never try.. u have total 100% chance of failure...
What had happened... cannot be revert ..... so... just look forward and learn from the mistake.. and ensure that the same mistake will not happened again...

Another thing that I have learn... human feeling.. sometime is up and sometime is down...no matter what is the you have done... want to change... it can be change just over night.. no any signal that will let you know..so.. you need to know when the weather is not the right time.. not the right mood.. so.... that will be the signal you able to get it.. so... what you can do during that time? the simple case... is just avoid.. if possible.. or else... do not open your mouth... even you soft talk... good talk also no used... it will make the situation worst ..so.. be cool always and no more anger feeling ... if not... then it will be burst out .. out of proportion... cannot be overcome later on...

Sometime... we need to have some deep thinking.. over what are we gone through... what we had done.. and think of it.... what is good point... what is bad point... think it over.... what can be improve further .....as life is so short... awhile ... it will be gone ...
as during earlier stage... at age .. 0 - 7 years old... consider a childhood life style.... freedom of problem...
8 - 17 years old... schooling time...out of working problem, relationship problem... and others major problem...
the real issue starting from age ... 18 years onward.... until we old age....
so.. life will never be smooth all the time... up and down.... just face it... and look forward ... go go go....
be more positive outlook..... even you are down.. .also need to look more open minded... accept the failure and move forward.... be cool to ourselves... and act the best that we can,.. then it can bring happiest..to our life....

11 . 11 . 11

Today is a special day... which come once in 100 years...
and at 11.11 am that time... will be 11.11, 11.11.11... that moment.. what are u doing?
have anyone got any idea? stop for a moment and think about just one minutes... after that one minutes.. become a history .. and need to repeat again... need to wait for another 100 years... perhaps not in this life time..

So.. whatever you do , keep in mind that the little action , mindset will change the following future to be...
and need to appreciate whatever you have now..and whatever moment u enjoy...as when the time is pass... it will forever gone ,  gone with the wind.. So, be a grateful person toward your surrounding friends, relative and family members...

無論愛不愛，下輩子都不會再見

無論愛不愛，下輩子都不會再見 

 

分享一篇香港電臺知名主持人梁繼璋----送給兒子  

最喜歡最後一句"無論愛不愛，下輩子都不再見"，讓我想起在上中國哲學課時老師常說的：菩薩案前一爐香，修得來世鐵心腸，你能參得了嗎?  

香港電臺知名主持人梁繼璋曾給兒子寫過一封信，這封信很快流傳於各大網站，很多父親看後感觸很深，我覺得不只給兒子，其實適合所有人看！  

下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會再見----送給兒子的備忘錄  

我兒：寫這備忘錄給你，基於三個原則：

（一）人生福禍無常，誰也不知可以活多久，有些事情還是早一點說好。

（二）我是你的父親，我不跟你說，沒有人會跟你說。

（三）這備忘錄記載的，都是我經過慘痛失敗得回來的體驗，可以為你的成長省回不少冤枉路。  

以下，便是你在人生中要好好記住的事：  

（一）對你不好的人，你不要太介懷，在你一生中，沒有人有義務要對你好，除了我和你媽媽。至於那些對你好的人，你除了要珍惜、感恩外，也請多防備一點，因為，每個人做每件事，總有一個原因，他對你好，未必真的是因為喜歡你，請你必須搞清楚，而不必太快將對方看作真朋友。  

（二）沒有人是不可代替，沒有東西是必須擁有。看透了這一點，將來你身邊的人不再要你，或許失去了世間上最愛的一切時，也應該明白，這並不是什麼大不了的事。  

（三）生命是短暫的，今日你還在浪費著生命，明日會發覺生命已遠離你了。因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也愈多，與其盼望長壽，倒不如早點享受。  

（四）世界上並沒有最愛這回事，愛情只是一種霎時的感覺，而這感覺絕對會隨時日、心境而改變。如果你的所謂最愛離開你，請耐心地等候一下，讓時日慢慢沖洗，讓心靈慢慢沉澱，你的苦就會慢慢淡化。不要過分憧憬愛情的美，不要過分誇大失戀的悲。  

（五）雖然很多有成就的人士都沒有受過很多教育，但並不等於不用功讀書，就一定可以成功。你學到的知識，就是你擁有的武器。人，可以白手興家，但不可以手無寸鐵，謹記！  

（六）我不會要求你供養我下半輩子，同樣地我也不會供養你的下半輩子，當你長大到可以獨立的時候，我的責任已經完結。以後，你要坐巴士還是Benz（賓士），吃魚翅還是粉絲，都要自己負責。  

（七）你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求別人守信，你可以要求自己對人好，但不能期待人家對你好。你怎樣對人，並不代表人家就會怎樣對你，如果看不透這一點，你只會徒添不必要的煩惱。  

（八）我買了十多二十年六合彩，還是一窮二白，連三獎也沒有中，這證明人要發達，還是要努力工作才可以，世界上並沒有免費午餐。  

（九）親人只有一次的緣分，無論這輩子我和你會相處多久，也請好好珍惜共聚的時光，下輩子，無論愛與不愛，都不會再見。

Holiday time

Holiday is an enjoying time ... can relax at home.. go out shopping... and do many stuff with own sweet time...but the holiday time is real fast... going to over soon...
so... goes back to reality of working life soon..

During this holiday.. .. enjoy some shopping.. take some nice photo..
and my wife trying some new receipt.... and the taste good too..
hahah... getting fatter lo...

this is gula melacca mix with milk and tea. a bit sweet and taste good...

During holiday time... try it out some cake...

 some new hair style ...
my daughters love it...

Levain Boulangerie & Patisserie

Enjoying nice food is one way of enjoying life.
No worry .. just enjoy the nice food infront of you.

This is one of the restaurant that I recommend .. nice environment and nice western food.

 

Chicken Lasagne

Cappuccino

 Chocolate Cappuccino

 Mushroom Cream Pasta

More detail relate to the shop, you can find it below the link.

Levain Boulangerie